Hi i have struggled with my mental health and please read this.
I lived with 3 girl friends at different occasions my family keep scaremongering me to move back home saying things like she is cheating on me etc.
I(You will lose the house, she will leave you, you cannot cope etc) We spilt up i move back home again.
Every occasion I moved with a g/f my brother every time he saw us in town would follow and harass us sometimes in the early hours he would sit outside on the door step.
I am now 38 and have saved 20k to look at a place I have a decent job and look at buying a little flat but the scaremongering again.
My dad has a addiction to recording his dvds on to blank dvds my brother has only worked the past 3 years he is 45. They just want me to stay here go to work then go straight to my room they do not want me to have a life when i go out on a date or view a house they put doubt in or scaremonger again. It is taking its toll on my mental health its like a battle with them.