Hi and welcome!
I feel so upset, angry and frustrated to hear what you're going through.
You MUST escape from this man who clearly has a hold over you - not just for your own sake but for your daughter's. He's just using you and sounds totally irresponsible. No wonder you're emotional, angry and exhausted and have been suicidal! (I have too in the past). You say you have no friends. Well, you have me now, and I won't let you down in helping you become free again. If you want, you can contact me on lamposatmaildotmd any time, and I'll get back to you. (I may be able to help you in practical ways).
What you said about him seeing prostitutes and yet using you as well sickened me. You're not an object to be used to satisfy his lust. Better to have no sex at all than to endure the treatment he forces upon you - with the real risk of contracting STD's too. I don't believe your marriage can possibly work with a man who is so selfish and uncaring. Far better to live alone with your daughter.
I am suffering, my daughter is suffering.
Yes, she is! And you mustn't allow that to continue.
Do I leave him again? I just can’t cope anymore.
You must, or you'll have a breakdown or worse. If that happened you'd be no good for your daughter and you'd lose her. She needs you.
The pressure of life is killing me, I haven’t slept for days I can’t eat and am just always on the verge of tears or so angry everyone thinks I am a total headcase.
I don't care what they think. They're clearly doing nothing to help you. Of course you're on the verge of tears and angry. Can't they see why? If I can, why can't they? Don't worry about why your husband loves his job. He doesn't love you - or his daughter - or he wouldn't be behaving the way he does.
Nobody respects me seriously... I have no one to talk to, no one that cares everyone is always wrapped in their lives just conning someone out of something.
I respect you. It sounds as if you have a rotten, useless family to match your rotten, useless husband. Not your fault - we can't choose our families, and we don't really get to know our partners until we start living with them. You're too good for them all, and you have values that stop you being dragged down to their level. I'd normally suggest marriage counselling, but your situation seems too extreme for that, and I doubt that such a man would co-operate.
I feel so very, very sorry for you. ((hugs)) xx