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by mimosas
Sat Apr 07, 2018 1:06 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 14353

Re: Shut out of new relationship

I can't understand the reactions of my friends to me saying i need to deal with this. I'm not going looking for a sympathy vote but it does show how some people (altho well meaning with regards to my feelings) just don't grasp the way things are in people with depression/anxiety - i probably didn't ...
by mimosas
Sat Apr 07, 2018 7:58 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 14353

Re: Shut out of new relationship

Thanks cc. Counting the days now .... what will be will be. Hope you are ok x
by mimosas
Sat Apr 07, 2018 7:55 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Stressed and potentially depressed partner broke up with me
Replies: 1
Views: 827

Re: Stressed and potentially depressed partner broke up with me

Hello Taram I can't really give you much advice, as you've probably seen from other posts here there are a few of us in very similar situations, some having better outcomes than others. The only thing I can say is your partner will need time to deal with this and you have to back off and give him sp...
by mimosas
Fri Apr 06, 2018 10:28 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 14353

Re: Shut out of new relationship

I've booked flights .... I am not going to tell anyone, I'll just contact him when I am there. I'm prepared for him to say its over, but if he does, at least I will have heard it from him and it won't be me that has made the decision. What I'm really hoping for is a greeting like the one I got when ...
by mimosas
Thu Apr 05, 2018 9:55 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 14353

Re: Shut out of new relationship

I think the time has come to go to the UK and try to resolve this. I have still heard nothing, I messaged his friend but I've had no reply and I can't keep on putting myself through this torture. I need an answer one way or the other and i am fed up of people telling me to just move on .... move on ...
by mimosas
Tue Apr 03, 2018 10:40 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 4971

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

I wish I could re-establish contact with mine, just to make sure he is ok more than anything. Rightly or wrongly I did message his friend last night ( after drinking too much) I need answers now. Friends are saying too long move on, trying to fix me up, I'm back on dating sites knowing I can't even ...
by mimosas
Mon Apr 02, 2018 2:04 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 4971

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

I do know how you feel, but in my case there were no arguments, we went from planning him moving to Spain to him ending things in the space of 10 days. There's no answers tho, I feel that maybe when their heads are back in the place they were in when things were good, they may realise they miss you....
by mimosas
Sat Mar 31, 2018 9:50 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 4971

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

James I think you are right about them getting into a relationship knowing that an episode is coming .... mine was dreading Christmas ( first one on his own for years, wedding anniversary, ex' s b'day,divorce going through) .... I said we could make this year a good one, he said do you think we coul...
by mimosas
Fri Mar 30, 2018 5:42 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship
Replies: 29
Views: 4971

Re: Depressed girlfriend has ended our relationship

I can't give you the answer I'm afraid as my situation is almost identical, just wanted to say I know how you feel. My only advice would be step back and give her the space, if you keep pushing she may shut you out totally - that's where I am with it now. Just don't know whether to give up or keep h...
by mimosas
Fri Mar 30, 2018 8:28 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Shut out of new relationship
Replies: 71
Views: 14353

Re: Shut out of new relationship

I'm back on my own thread here just to say yesterday was my birthday .... and still no contact, nothing has changed. I'm hoping he might be here in Spain for the Easter break so all is not lost yet, he could have flown in last night ... but I think I am clutching at straws. I was nagged for ages to ...

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