B. Dragon I would say your observation of your friend is accurate I use to be a bit like this when I would use marijuana. What I didn't notice that it was making more selfish.Everybody says that weed brings you in to yourself. He's probably next to his self goals, but can he bring it together to realise himself with them, actually - is the foot gonna be in the door, actually?
What is probably happening is that hes not noticing hows he is missing opportunities and hampering his mental and physical health through intoxication. He probably doesn't realise that he is MISSING IN time more proper efforts to find work, it's really competitive outside. So you have to be forward and INN on all the important credentials like cv prep/interview prep, linkedin.com.
Lots of work places to do drug test aswell.
I looked this for structured living for yourself and him. http://www.skilledatlife.com/18-reasons ... important/
All the best
Trying to be helpful as I can, helps me with my mental health. And I don't realise enough from myself, Is what I understand from myself.