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katyia
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hyphchondria

Postby katyia » Wed Jun 12, 2019 10:14 pm

hi Sane support forum friends

I'm on medication for psychosis
and I sometimes find my aunt is very helpful with my obsessions,
hypochondria and stuff , anxiety
but then there is a price to pay in what she expects me to do
for example visiting my addict brother
who is abusive to me

right now there is a smell coming from the kitchen
which I cant seem to locate
and I feel its making me ill

if I email my aunt about it I will feel relieved and better
but have to pay the price ...

anyone relate to something weird like this ?

love n hugs Katyia

hyster
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Location: Coventry

Re: hyphchondria

Postby hyster » Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:06 pm

hey,

its good ur aunt helps but bad that she expects u to do stuff in return.
is ur brother abusive in front of her ?? if so then why would she make u do it ??

katyia
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby katyia » Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:15 pm

thankyou hyster

I had not thought about that
I think maybe she has not seen him being abusive
not in the way he is to me
I have told her about it, but maybe she thinks I'm exaggerating
or that I got it wrong because of my mental health issues

x x

hyster
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby hyster » Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:28 pm

do u know what triggers his abuse ?? if so maybe try to get him to do it in front of her ??

katyia
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby katyia » Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:58 pm

thanks Hyster

no I think he does that with me
because he can sense that I'm vulnerable

so when she is there with me
he would be better behaved

me and him were also very close as children
so he probably feels a bit too much relaxed with me

I think in a different way that my aunt is being abusive
to want to expose me to all that, when I'm not well myself isn't it

so hence I am chatting here instead of emailing her !

and how are you today ?

x x

hyster
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby hyster » Fri Jun 14, 2019 12:22 am

still alive lol.

maybe ur bro fees that close to u he can et himself rant at u getting his frustration out ??

u think ur aunt is using u in some way ??

katyia
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby katyia » Fri Jun 14, 2019 2:09 am

thanks Hyster
at least you have some humour !

yes I think he feels close to me
im not sure what my aunt feels about it
maybe just shame

yes I think my aunt is using me
so that she doesnt have to handle a relationship with him

he is not allowed their phone numbers
and I still. love them

x x x

hyster
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby hyster » Fri Jun 14, 2019 10:06 am

a dark sense of humour is the only way i get by in life.
she must be very shallow to feel shame at a family member that has heath issues :/

katyia
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby katyia » Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:19 am

thankyou Hyster

yes maybe, I think she has mental issues herself maybe as well
some people dont realise that they do
but I'm trying to leave her and my brother to get on with it
which is hard because I miss them

looking forward to more of your dark humour !

x x x

hyster
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Re: hyphchondria

Postby hyster » Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:41 am

i tend to keep my dark side hidden as most people dt like it.

im stuck in between my bros and dad the last few years, my bro has always been my dads fav with my dad believing everything he said dropping me in it all my life.
the last few years my dad realizes how manipulative my bro has been and bro hates he no longer gets his own way.
he now calls me moaning about our dad and me dad moans about my bro.

kinda funny in a way lol

now i just listen and agree as i cba with them.
unlike u i dt miss them, it wouldnt bother me if i never seen them again.

have u tried to say no when they drag u into something ?? id just say something like no idead, i never get told anything


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