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Problem at work

Postby FRANCESCA » Sat Jul 07, 2018 9:01 pm

I am having trouble with someone at work. I get on with everyone else but this person wont speak to me. Every time I see her I shake and feythingel awful. She speaks to everyone else.I have not done any thing to make her treat me like this. Any advice?

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Re: Problem at work

Postby christabel » Sun Jul 08, 2018 4:13 pm

Hi Francesca

Can you talk to someone in higher authority about this or is any other staff that you trust that could find out why you are being treated the way you are.
I know it is difficult to face up to the person yourself when you feel like a quivering wreck. Some people can make us feel like that.

Also a lesson I have learned in life is that not everyone likes you.
Their loss if you ask me.
Take care. Chris

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Re: Problem at work

Postby foreverblue » Tue Jul 10, 2018 2:28 pm

I have a fairly similar problem.

There is someone at my work that for some reason treats me differently than the others. It's like, when there's an issue and she doesn't know the answer to something she just decides to wait until someone else is free rather than ask me.

She seems to find it very satisfying when I make mistakes and she swoops in and saves the day last minute, rather than help me resolve the issue correctly.

I get frozen out a lot at work due to being the youngest. No one really speaks to me or takes me very seriously.

I'd suggest to keep your head up and don't let them see that they affect you in a bad way. It may be that they are shy around you? Who knows, but at the end of the day you get to leave work behind and go home.

Sending love and support. x

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Re: Problem at work

Postby itt » Mon Jul 16, 2018 9:04 am

I'm new to this
So bear with me...
I recently changed jobs... horrible painful true story.
Won't go there for now.

I started new job
And found myself in similar but not quite the same pea green boat as you.

I got a bit angry
And then had deep thinks

Came up with a simple but not fool proof idea.

I took goodies into work
Bag of sweets.
I shared them
I went up to the person I thought did not like me
Offered her a sweet from bag.
This seemed to break the ice.
An ice breaker moment
We are not the best of friends
But we acknowledge each other
With hello and goodbye
I'm ok with that
So is this person

Hope you have a good day
Kind thinks

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