Hello. I am so sorry to read your story. Sadly it sounds like your husband hasn't been treated very well by the Health Services! My only experience I can share is that my partner becomes a differet person on antidepressants. They do not actually seem to treat his depression but make him emotionally numb - which affects ability to relate to others. Try to hang in there, my partner only became 'himself' again after a lengthty period of coming off his medication slowly (months). It sounds like the main condition hasn't been treated - and the rest is a sticky plaster - but, being a still young man, your husband is angry and worried about a future where he cannot function as he wants. I too snap occasionally, you are only himan! But it never helps. Big hugs!