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betterinrecovery
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Re: Cleaning at home

Postby betterinrecovery » Tue Apr 10, 2018 2:53 pm

I am carrying on with the decluttering- it is a major challenge. Perhaps, as I get more mature I am beginning to realise it is quality not quantity that matters.

I am also going to make a scrap book, then instead of keeping loads of magazines, I will just keep the page I am interested in... that is the plan anyway.

letting go it is not easy, I think, but it is possible.

B

christabel
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Re: Cleaning at home

Postby christabel » Tue Apr 10, 2018 7:58 pm

Hi b

Sounds like a good plan. We moved home to downsize a couple of year ago and it made me have to clear a lot of unnecessary stuff out.
The amount of things that we hang on to thinking we will use them is ridiculous. I found that it has reduced housework immensely, hurray, and having less clutter helps my mind to be less cluttered.

I have just put a pile of magazines to one side to go through before I pass them on so I'm hoping this rubbish weather stays a bit longer and I get them done.
Keep up the good work but don't put yourself off by piling it on yourself too much.
X Chris

christabel
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Re: Cleaning at home

Postby christabel » Sun Apr 15, 2018 1:07 pm

Come to a bit of a stand still Here. How is it going with you?

betterinrecovery
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Re: Cleaning at home

Postby betterinrecovery » Mon Apr 16, 2018 2:13 am

Hi Christabel,
I have been meaning to reply. I have a limited amount of energy for writing just now, if I am on here and see someone in obvious distress, I feel I have to acknowledge this, by writing them a reply. then I am late in replying to you.
It is nice to 'chat' to someone with similar experiences.
My clutter is a challenge, but just throwing things out and giving things away does not solve the problem. Good understanding of what I bought and why is the best way to prevent continuing with this problematic behaviour.
I have to say, I have some pretty dresses and I intend to wear them and enjoy them.
I have some nice shoes too and I intend to wear them and not keep them for that 'special occasion'.
It is 2 am in the morning, people prone to depression (like me) are better off asleep.
so best wishes, will try to write regularly.
B

christabel
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Re: Cleaning at home

Postby christabel » Tue Apr 17, 2018 8:45 pm

Hi B

No worries I totally get it and I am very much like that myself. Don't feel pressured just a reply when you feel up to it is lovely. TY.

Been feeling a bit poorly last few days but a bit better today. Have a follow up appointment with consultant tomorrow so see what they want me to do. Been reducing down steroids which apparently can make you feel off.

Clothes wise I am hanging on to summer stuff that is practically brand new in hope that at some point I can shift the excess baggage . Can't seem to get in the right mindset. But it seems to be a problem with quite a few of my family at the mo.
Take care. X Chris

PureFrustr8d
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Re: Cleaning at home

Postby PureFrustr8d » Wed Apr 18, 2018 9:26 pm

Hey,

I just wanted to see if you are ok? I noticed your reaction to a distressing post. It's really hard when people post things like that re ending their life. You have done the kindest of things replying and checking up on the member, unfortunately they don't always come back. That's not to say they have harmed themselves though. Try to consider that they write their post and see all the support given and rethink their situation. Some people think no-one cares and that view is contradicted when they get a reply. It just takes one person to make a difference.

I do hope you're alright,
Peace


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