i agree.if im still like this when im away from my dad.then im abusive too.
we both scream at each other,mum gets it worse as i bang my head up the wall too.
i just cant stand him.my cpn knows and said the same as you,the effect it has is the abuse.
mum says its different.i suppose because of what hes doing to me.
abuse is also termed as the things someone do to you,is for the purpose of hurting you and gaining pleasure from hurting you.
i get NO pleasure from being angry al the time.but i am so resentfull.i know it was my choice to wait for my mum but.hes driving me mad.
she wont stand up to him and i have so many conflicting thoughts.
i dont know.im tired of being their parents.i cant help other people when i cant help me
It's nice to be important ,but it's more important to be nice
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