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Letting off steam...

Postby ModeratingTeam » Mon Jan 10, 2011 2:13 pm

Sometimes you just need to let off steam! Feel free…
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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby mel_d » Fri May 27, 2011 9:08 pm

I so need to get rid of what im feeling! i work for my family, as in cosins & Ant & things have become slightly strained sinnce i went under. My Ant has told me how proud she is of me for my reactions, but no one else can understand! This problem is going to rumble on for a long while!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have always been the general dogs body & every time i feel im worth a little more i get put back in my place!! yeah im doing so well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
unplug and hope for the best

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby Bella07 » Sun Aug 26, 2012 12:05 am

When i ask for help at the hospital some of the young doctors and student nurses do not treat me the same as other because when i tell them how i got my wounds to myself though self harming they sometimes say thats a stuppid thing to do to yourself or they come out with comments like cant you find better things to do with your time. I have had this comment so many times the nurses and doctors saying it obversly havent expranced or had a mental illness before.
So know after those expances i know do not seek help i try to sort them out my self but its not always possible.

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby Without-Hope » Wed Jun 19, 2013 12:59 am

I wish the doctors would actually help me rather than just putting me on more pain meds for my health disorder.I know that they have no idea what causes the health disorder I have but they could at least try and be more sympathetic right ? I'm just so sick of being expected to put up with the pain I'm in.

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby kckittykat1993 » Sat Mar 28, 2015 7:28 pm

i really need to get this off my chest and also see if other people have had this experience. so i was very poorly in summer, really poorly in hospital sectioned and everything. then since Christmas i have been high and low and high and low. but then my meds got changed and I stabilised beginning of march. when I was high I was applying for lots of courses, then a few week ago i went to one short courses but got kicked out because i wasn't stable. BUT I was. i am stable. i have social anxiety what makes me have intrusive thoughts and i didn't have my twiddle toys to keep my hand busy. so i was scratching, but it wasn't self harm i just need to keep my hands busy at all times when i am anxious because they go to my skin and i don't notice.
so i got sent home and i told my cmht to contact them and tell them i am stable so they did but know i feel everyone is fighting to stop me getting on with my life they say im not ready, i need to take small steps. with my SA i don't like going out and i avoid everything and i mean everything i get so scared i will do something stupid that i will not go out but right now all i want to do is succeed im still young but i am getting older and all my friends are moving on with there life's. with every year the distance between me and them is getting far and far away.
i understand that i did get severely agitated and my thoughts was getting extreme like harmful but i didn't do anything and what i did do isn't how they made out (the scratching) because i want to fight all this fight now doesn't that mean i am ready.
people tell you to come to them if you are struggling and i was struggling but overreact and make everything worse.
if you tell people u are ever kicked out or get told you are being manipulative. if you don't tell anyone you can get stressed, overwhelmed, alone and can then make you unstable and ill again.
ok rant over x i abit feel calmer already

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby Anaya » Fri May 08, 2015 2:49 pm

I'll take you up on that offer... My life has been awful from the day I was born, horrible things happen to me all the time and always have, I have suffered with depresion since I was 13. I have had 6 close deaths in the last 6 years (my mum, dad and step-dad all going to cancer) I found out recently that my little sister has cancer and am freaking out, I also found out im being made homeless, I said all this in a post I started but no one replyed to me, wich made me even more sad because I am so loney and everyone who could help me is dead. Really dont want to feel alone any more. I know people always say you have to help yourself but I cant undo death.... feeling so lost right now

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby Lucy.House » Sat May 23, 2015 10:46 am

Someone please help me.....arrrrgggghhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! JUst wanna rip my heart out of my chest why are people lousy. I give and i give at the detrament of my own life. I never say no! i cant. i really do love people but there crap. Im in so much emotional and mental and spriitual pain iv never asked for help since i was 13 im now 27 and im littrally screaming inside for it now! i just feel no one cares. Afte my admition to hospital 3 nights ago a nurse got intouch with my gp the gp me got in touch with me then the crisis team iv been told to wait 2 weeks for a responce and they might not get back to me if they dont i have to ring the gp back once the 2 weeks is up. iv finally asked for the help and i just feel like theyve made me worse make me drag up 15 years of hurt and pain, then left me to it. I cant keep hanging on like this!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby Milky » Sun May 24, 2015 6:14 pm

Sorry you are feeling this way Lucy.
I know how hard the nhs makes things at times with making you wait for help and it really scares me how our government seem to manage this vital service.

I can't help but think if they helped a little more quickly and effectively then we wouldn't need so many hospitals visits!

Hope you get the help you need x

Hugs x Milky

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Re: Letting off steam...

Postby kat32 » Mon Jun 12, 2017 5:12 pm

I don't know what to think of work. I thought that I'd been given a chance to shine, and I've shown them the skills I have and how I've helped others, but I over herd them say that they were going to stop me from applying for the kind of work I am doing. I don't get paid for it now but was told that I could , I do better than them but they are so dead set against me getting a job I love and can do.
I have a feeling that they don't want to me to get work as they herd rubbish things about me. I've never upset anyone, hurt anyone and I know that it's not going to happen, I've herd that there not giving me paid work.
Then one of them says I'll put in a good word for you, keep reminding them. Why do people have to lie or be such hypocrits.

I have told them that I don't want to go back to the agency, and they look at me and say not directly in words but in metaphors that I don't want to work, which isn't true.

Ido want to work , I can do the job better than them, I just can't afford to set myself up or get loans. I'm so close to saying why arent you giving me a chance and falling out with them.

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