depressedtodeath wrote:It makes me angry that you don't leave for the sake of your son. How can you be such an unloving uncaring mother not to have done this. Get your head out of the sand and leave this loser for your son's sake.
Jazzdrop22 wrote:My God this poor girl reaches out for help and support and someone comes along and leaves a snide comment like that, how horrible is that. She is stuck in this situation of her husband possibly taking his life and that's all you can say
Pebbles I understand how hard your situation is my love.... you are tied because of the threats of suicide and the guilt trips....but you can't keep on trying if he is going to sleep with other people and behave like he is in front of your child. I know its scary to move on, maybe sit him down and speak to him and say its the last time you will warn him that if his behaviour doesn't stop you are, and will, leave him...tell him its his final warning and that this time he needs to take you seriously as you will leave, maybe tell him the ball is in his court now so what ever happens will be his decision. You really need to get proper advice from someone in the mental health field though, someone who can weigh up how serious his threats are. I have been where you are and still am to some degree and ive wasted my life and wish I had done things differently!! Please call the help line and get proper advice, I'm only another mum with a similar experience but I'm years ahead of you. Good luck and do let me know how you get on.
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