Hi everyone. I'm wondering how do you all deal with feelings of guilt please?
I've hurt someone emotionally recently. It was never my intention to upset them. I expected they might have been but nothing has been said to me until today. To cut a long story short, in order to cut costs to my upcoming wedding, I've had to make the difficult decision in letting 3 of my bridesmaids go, including one of my oldest and trusted friends. I now know there were different options, but at the time it felt like the right decision. My friend is feeling better now, now that we have talked and I am glad she's told me how she felt. But now I feel like such an awful person. I've got silly scenarios going through my mind. I feel so guilty for hurting her. She wanted to know if I was ok and didn't want me feeling upset. Truth is I am but I don't want to tell her that cos I don't want her worrying or feeling the way she did again