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vedsa
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I’m so angry...

Postby vedsa » Sat Mar 30, 2019 4:57 pm

My partner has got depression, and I don’t know how to cope with it...
I’m so angry with the depression for stealing my billy away from me...
I’ve been with him for nearly 4 years, and known him for 8, but I just can’t do it anymore.
I know people have been dealing with it for much longer than me, but I’m so sad and hurt and tired... and guilty because I’m being so selfish. He needs me and my support and I’m just walking away from him.
He won’t speak to me, and just pushes me away, I’m heartbroken. Just so so heartbroken, in tears and
I feel so alone... I don’t know what to do.

christabel
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Re: I’m so angry...

Postby christabel » Sat Mar 30, 2019 11:33 pm

Hi vedsa

You must look after yourself first and foremost. It is only natural to feel awful but you have only one life and your health and happiness is important.

Give yourselves some space.

It is hard being with someone that has MH problems. You need to have an outlet of things away from the issues to be able to cope better. It is good you have reached out on here.

Best wishes to you and your partner. Take care. Chris

firebird123
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Re: I’m so angry...

Postby firebird123 » Mon Apr 01, 2019 2:12 pm

HI Vedsa

I am going through the same thing. All I can say is what the other person said, make sure you look after yourself, plan some nice things to do for YOU, and seek therapy yourself if you think that might help.

You are not alone. I know it completely feels like it though.

x


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