Just catching up on your thread here.
I have been posting on a different one with Lillie, I am the other person with contact... well up to a couple of days ago.
My guy was never in LT relationships either. I met him online, we fell head over heels very quickly. He had deep confidence issues thinking that I was too good for him etc... we were together a few months when he broke up with me in December (the week after he told me that some day he would marry me). He did it by text stating that i was better off without him, he wasn't good enough for me, he did not want to hurt me and although he loved me he had to break it off. I forced a meeting (as in i showed up at his work) and he told me he was thinking of ways to die everynight, that the only time he was happy was with me. The whole month of December I pushed, contacted him sometimes I was supportive, sometimes i was angry. Then in January he agreed to meet me. We started seeing each other at the week ends every couple of weeks, having a great time and enjoying each other's company. The first time we barely kissed, the second time we hugged and kissed good bye, we started becoming more and more comfortable with each other he responded when i was telling him i love him, he told me he had missed me too. Then mid Feb came the big breakthrough, he admitted his depression, went on meds and started counselling.
He left his job, moved home and started a new job. Things were looking up, he introduced me to friends i had never met before, he called me his girlfriend again, I stayed over twice in the last 2 weeks. But... he stopped his meds, the dark thoughts came back and although we had a great wkend together less than a week ago and i stayed over, he has stopped all contact with me since Wednesday.