Hi Lillie, Ariane, Sally, James and all those who haven’t posted for a while.
I’m sorry Lillie and Ariane that things with your guys aren’t looking good, when we thought your situations were heading towards happy endings. Unfortunately if they don’t want to help themselves, no one can do it for them. It’s heartbreaking and hard but it comes to a point when enough is enough and we need to put ourselves first.
Just like Sally, I’ve taken a step back reading and posting about MH issues because I was going round in circles and not getting any answers. It was hindering my healing. I still think about my ex, I miss him, I feel sad we can’t be together and angry that this illness has robbed us of a future together. But the sadness and feeling of hurt is getting less and less. I’m in a much better place. I never thought I would be where I am now 2 weeks ago. I’m not ready to date yet. I’m taking my time to fill my cup back up. I want to work on my own issues. I want to get emotionally healthy so to attract someone who is equally emotionally healthy. I want to carry on doing the things I always wanted to do. Boy, I can tell you I have been having so much fun! My diary for the next 2 months is full!
Time for all of you to make yourself a priority. Make time for self-care, start a new hobby, reconnect with friends and family, make new friends, be happy. Who knows? Our ex’s might come back to us or they may not. But it won’t matter because we will be in a better place.
I wish you all peace xx