I am new to this, so here goes...I am married with kids, I have a great job so not sure why I feel the way I do. I am depressed. I am tired all the time and just want to sleep. When the kids go to school and husband goes to work I will go back to bed for most of the day. Get up tidy quickly before everyone arrives home. My marriage isn’t great. Not been intimate for 2 years and we are just going through the motions. Terrified of being separated from my kids. I don’t earn as much as my husband and finically he would be more secure. My friend just passed away suddenly of a infection and she was young. I have been to the GP on several occasions and had antidepressants but I ended up gaining loads of weight that I can’t shift. I no longer know what to do. Is there a herbal or alternate medication that could help?