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eternalflame
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Hugs needed please

Postby eternalflame » Sat Nov 17, 2018 12:38 am

Hi All,
I'm a moderator on another forum, two users were arguing. So I deleted there posts and gave them both warnings.
The one user has critised me badly, I am extremely upset. I know I did my best.
He has complained about me to all the other mods, admins and site owner.
I love moderating and helping keep the site safe.
I can't relax, am that upset.
Really in need of some hugs.
Thanks everyone

andthistoomustpass
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Joined: Wed Nov 02, 2016 11:02 pm

Re: Hugs needed please

Postby andthistoomustpass » Sat Nov 17, 2018 2:07 am

HUGS

eternalflame
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Joined: Fri Aug 10, 2018 10:10 pm

Re: Hugs needed please

Postby eternalflame » Sat Nov 17, 2018 2:46 am

Thank you so much.

emloja
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Joined: Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:34 pm

Re: Hugs needed please

Postby emloja » Sat Nov 17, 2018 9:57 am

Remember they don't know you personally.That was your role and you did your best. They broke the rules and so you acted accordingly. Often these things matter a great deal when they are important to us; which means you worked hard at the role and did a good job (if that makes sense). Hugs and wishes for a good weekend x

upwards-is-the-aim
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Joined: Tue Oct 09, 2018 9:16 pm

Re: Hugs needed please

Postby upwards-is-the-aim » Sat Nov 17, 2018 12:50 pm

You did what you were meant to do in that role

Moderating is an important part of a forum

Just because they did not like it is not the issue

Case dismissed

Self-accusing is innocent of having done anything wrong
Trying to help and be supportive to others on this forum is one of my attempts to reduce my own depression. Getting ourselves out of our own head circles is usually a good thing to do. Maybe try it yourself

sirhugo
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Joined: Mon Nov 13, 2017 12:40 pm

Re: Hugs needed please

Postby sirhugo » Sat Nov 17, 2018 4:45 pm

(((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))))))

this is a virtual hug :lol: :lol:


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