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sad
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Re: PK

Postby sad » Thu Aug 01, 2013 3:15 am

No you are right it's not long now.

Last time we spoke he wasn't PK the alter, but it freaked me out a bit, which is quite funny cause if anyone should be frightening it's PK lol Anyway I handled it badly and not heard from him again after that. The thread is called: complex situation help or harm *trig. it's on a few pages back in mutual support forum, if you want to read the last from him??

I have felt really bad about it, I hope it's all alright

xx

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Re: PK

Postby loubat » Wed Aug 14, 2013 2:29 pm

O no I can't believe they have taken her that is so sad and unfair I don't think anyone can do or say anything to help please send my love xxx

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Re: PK

Postby judithj » Wed Aug 14, 2013 2:43 pm

Send our love, but let's not leap to conclusions yet - sometimes a baby needs to be checked out after the birth and so parents can't be with the baby immediately, xxx

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Re: PK

Postby Avalon » Wed Aug 14, 2013 6:07 pm

PK, If you read this know that we're all thinking of you. Congratulations on the birth of your daughter. I hope that they have just taken her to do the normal checks etc xxx

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Re: PK

Postby irenew » Wed Aug 14, 2013 6:58 pm

Oh how awful for poor PK, I do hope it is only a temporary thing.
Is the baby still with her mother? I do hope so.
Please Lucretia send him my love and please keep us informed, he is going to need all our support now, more than ever.
Much love to you PK xx

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Re: PK

Postby NeverGiveUp22 » Wed Aug 14, 2013 10:31 pm

PK, I'm sorry to hear what has happened. Lost for words really. Thinking of you! x


Lu, don't call yourself that. I don't think it's false hope. There must still be routes to appeal and have the situation reassessed etc. These decisions aren't completely fixed just like that... We don't know much at this point :(

Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.
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Re: PK

Postby sad » Thu Aug 15, 2013 4:50 am

Hi PK

I'm really sorry mate, where is your wife?? Please come and talk to me when you are feeling better. My heart goes out to you.

Loads of love mate xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Re: PK

Postby judithj » Thu Aug 15, 2013 12:53 pm

We can't know for certain what's happening: I hope that all goes well for them but speculating and worrying won't help anyone. I know that I've tried explaining to PK that treating social services etc as "the enemy" only confirms any negative views they have of him but I don't think he's really taken that in. I hope Danni is ok too - she needs support too, hugs, xxx

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Re: PK

Postby painkillerv3 » Fri Aug 16, 2013 3:24 pm

To clarify the actual situation.
My wife was premature because of the stress the SS 4 weeks premature and the baby came out 5lbs but we did not get to see her they took her 20 secs after birth no cuddles no hello's no goodbye's we have not even named her yet. I was taken from the hospital and escorted home told never to go back. The same day got a call from the SS saying to attend this app and since 6 hours earlier my wife popped out a baby and they literally cut her groin to give baby room and stitched it up barely able to walk and since the SS took the child straight away making it to the app was obviously hard but she did it so did my in laws one of them in a wheel chair. They then said right taking you to court in 2 days (today) at that point I only not lost the child I also lost my wife we are no longer a couple so in the spread of a couple of hours I have lost everything I truly have lost everything also lost the car got 1k worth baby stuff cant use a painful reminder. I have been so stressed I have not eaten in about a month, slept about 12 hours in the past month. I cant self injure as they are trying to prove it although NO ONE has ever seen me without my shirt on or jacket but claim they have proof i did show solicitor to prove it. I have lost everything my child which was the one driving force I had to work hard and my wife the only reason I had for living, I have lost my family most of my friends due to the fact no contact with anyone that contacts my wife the only chance is for my wife to get the baby without me but they dont believe we have separated.
I have nothing left I have lost it all, for the past few weeks its been really tough on me and because I am a machine in terms when it comes to data and calculations I knew this would happen from the start but they lied strung us along to believe there was hope thats why we did not separate earlier my wife wanted the family to stay together as they gave her hope she stayed together with me the problem is as I have a MH record I kept telling people how this would turn out and it has accurately to my calculations but oh yeah he is paranoid and mentally ill but was I wrong? no I was 100/100 accurate. The SS have twisted everything in their favor i have a file on JUST ME that is 2.5" thick DOUBLE SIDED!! that is complete nonsense and out of context play and of course SS are playing drama just for effect. The truth is although many think im dangerous and aggressive im not im actually the kindest person you may meet the "violent" part is nothing but a warning to stay away from me as to say do not attempt to abuse me, people fear me it keeps them away and no abuse toward me 90% of the time anyway.
Now I have lost everything, you can imagine what comes next and frankly I welcome it with all the stress I have been under past months its going to be the best moment to date. The problem always has been im not violent and destructive I am detatched from most emotions anger being one of them but I am self destructive and live by the honor of my heritage, I will live for my family and I will die for this family its all the same to me but I will protect my family by any means necessary . I hope this clears up any confusion
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Re: PK

Postby Avalon » Fri Aug 16, 2013 7:40 pm

PK It's so awful for you. I truly cannot believe that they can be so cruel. Did they give you any warning of what would be happening after the birth? What happens now, is your daughter with your wife?


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