hey mrs, it's not your fault you were ill!
its not fathers day til the 16th. Want me to make you a voodoo doll?
but seriously, that was the final hold over you and your mum, take time on deciding what you want to do next, dont let the media guilt trip you into something that could be a bad move.
Hope everything goes ok for your mum on thursday, keep in touch, Im not so good at getting to sleep these days so I may be around xxx