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belle
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Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby belle » Thu May 30, 2013 6:33 pm

A hippie chick - I love that idea! :D
Oh, OK - Grade 1 is the hair cut style - sorry :oops:
Yes, please can you show me in a flattering light Lou?!
It's good they have given you your kindle back and I hope you enjoy the films.
Yep, conform is the word.
Nothing wrong in being a rebel as long as you are safe and others too.
Sounds like you meds regime is causing you some highs and lows but at least if you know while they are trying to get you sorted out that's why it is happening it might help.
Take care and keep safe this evening.
xxx.

loubat

Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby loubat » Thu May 30, 2013 7:18 pm

Angry angry angry !!!! :(

belle
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Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby belle » Thu May 30, 2013 7:25 pm

Why?
What's up?
Please talk to me.

loubat

Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby loubat » Thu May 30, 2013 7:43 pm

theres a male nurse and i hate him had problems with him before he told me couldnt go in shower until the other one came back to supervise me i told him no one going in bathroom while im having shower nobody has before but justt keep repeat himself he gone back to other ward now but has wound me up!!!!told him to f off want to smash his face in he love winding me up now the lady nurse i get on well with has told me to calm down like its my fault sooooo sick of this place!!!sorry belle xx

belle
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Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby belle » Thu May 30, 2013 7:53 pm

OK - slow down Lou. Please.
Some nurses do wind people up - whether they mean to or not, they do.
I'd like to think MH nurses didn't do that but it's like all jobs - some people do it better than others.
Forget him.
It's over.
Don't let this rock you.
You have done well today.
If you think he was being deliberately provocative to get you angry then ask to speak to the ward manager. Explain. Ask for him not to be allocated to you again.
Tell them what happened.
OK, you have been abusive but you can apologise for that and take responsibility for that bit.
But it was a reaction to being pushed too far.
Please do not hurt yourself now because you are angry.
It is not all your fault.
Does this make sense or are you too angry?

loubat

Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby loubat » Thu May 30, 2013 8:16 pm

tried to speak to lady nurse but cant get wordds outttoo angry and stupid cant get my side across i was okk to then he alway do somethingg to upsett me

belle
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Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby belle » Thu May 30, 2013 8:31 pm

OK.
Maybe give yourself some more time to calm down and then talk to the lady nurse again?
I can understand in my own way because when I get angry things don't come out right - I shout, I cry, I swear, I do/say all sorts of things I shouldn't but it will settle I promise.
You are not stupid because you can't put your side over.
You are angry and upset so it's no wonder you can't talk atm.
That does not make you stupid. I think it is normal for someone who is unwell.
Why not show her your post on here about what happened?
You can get through this Lou - yes?
xxxxx

loubat

Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby loubat » Thu May 30, 2013 8:45 pm

Ijust dontunderstand why hewould dothat xx

belle
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Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby belle » Thu May 30, 2013 8:53 pm

Just because .....
I don't know any more than you do.
Bad mood, gets a kick out of winding up vulnerable people, doesn't like being on your ward, personality clash, boss on his case, tooth ache...
I'm not being flippant. Who knows Lou.
I do question why people who behave in an 'unsupportive way' in a hospital of any kind are choosing to do the job they are doing.
The government are going on about the patient being at the heart of treatment and care, and some nurses and doctors will be getting wake up calls pretty soon - maybe not soon enough for you today.
He has probably gone off to the other ward and forgotten all about it, but for you it has huge consequences. It has really upset you, made you angry and it's not fair.
Please speak to the nurse and/or ward manager when you feel calm.
Or write down how you feel so you can control how it comes out.
This nurse could set you back and that is not right.
Stay strong please Lou.

loubat

Re: bad mood pos trig

Postby loubat » Thu May 30, 2013 9:05 pm

Yess I understandd I not know why he workhere I wasnot rudeto him firsttI can nots speakkI tonigt tooangry willtry morning at leasttpunch wall nothim andget more troublee he got hiskick now I upsethad tobe drug to keep quite sohewins x


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