Hiya, finally plucked up the courage to join a support forum as I've been struggling with my emotional healing for the past 5 years now, so enough is enough. I need to free myself.
I separated from my husband nearly 3 years ago, which was extremely difficult and painful as he decided to play victim and lay the blame solely on me, causing a lot of stress for both me and my kids.
As a consequence of all this, my relationship with my oldest young adult became increasingly strained as she felt the need to be there for her father and basically "mother" him. As a result of this, we are now estranged and she has told me she wants nothing to do with me. I have so many emotions going through my head, I simply can't process them - I'm hurt and devastated.
Anyone been in or going through a similar situation, who can offer a ray of light to get me through this