Thank you so much guys! Thank you taking me seriously, for giving me constructive links and for making me smile again at the same time.
I think when i've got myself really down and depressed in the past it's because i've got stressed and upset and felt unable to deal with little things in the past.
You guys took me seriously, everyone else was like "Well hello! That's what cat's do!"
My cat is 10 years old, it's only when we moved a year ago...that we were lucky enough to have a lovely garden, and all the wildlife that visited it. In our last house our cats only ate the occasional spider or moth.
It's not even dealing with the mice and baby birds that is a problem, I guess it's more dealing with feeling guilty and helpless and it seems like such an inevitable waste...Once the cat has killed the prey, that's it...they just aren't interested in it.
Thanks for link for the bib, i'm going to buy one straight away. I don't think my cat will want to wear it one bit...but i'm so desperate...i'll try anything.
..and at least this way I'll have some fun trying.
I can't punish my cat, for doing what comes naturally...
but at least I feeling like there are at least a couple of things I can try...I keep you posted x