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by so sad
Mon Jun 22, 2020 12:00 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi How are things? Are you feeling a bit less flat? Did work help? I totally get that some people drop into the annoying category very quickly when trying to be affectionate. Some are just a bit too full on, especially when we’re not used to it. Has he been expressing how he has been struggling with...
by so sad
Mon Jun 15, 2020 3:37 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi I’m sorry to hear about your fella but I think it’s the best thing for you and your health. Like you said last time, he has always been more into you than the other way round and where I know most relationships have a slight imbalance, I think yours was a bit more pronounced. The weight thing is ...
by so sad
Tue Jun 09, 2020 12:52 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi I’m so sorry that you had a few bad days. I can honestly say that I have never been as affected by the news as I have recently. I’ve stopped watching it. So I do understand how badly it affects us. I have no clue where we’re at with the virus – like you said, they just contradict themselves all t...
by so sad
Fri Jun 05, 2020 11:42 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi, How are you? How is work? It all sounds very positive, I’m really pleased for you. I’m still struggling and I can’t see what could change that would change that. I have an appointment (telephone) next week with the orthopaedic team about my shoulder. I’m hoping they’ll have the xray from last we...
by so sad
Wed May 27, 2020 2:14 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi Em How was your weekend? I didn't do much which was kind of the plan anyway. On Monday I saw my niece and nephew from a distance as well as my parents so that was lovely. Did some reading and watching TV. I'm now back at work and feel utterly useless and therefore worthless. My sleep is still poo...
by so sad
Mon May 18, 2020 3:11 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi Hi. How are things? I’m really struggling, mentally I’m all the over the place and my shoulder is getting worse. That is then interfering with my sleep which makes me feel worse in general. Work – it hasn’t always been such a problem but the anxiety started about 8 years ago and work aggravates i...
by so sad
Fri May 15, 2020 8:50 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Book fair
Replies: 2
Views: 489

Re: Book fair

Hi

Not sure about HMRC but with COVID19, now might not be the time to open something so social

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by so sad
Mon May 11, 2020 12:28 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 98
Views: 41881

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi, great to hear from you, I was getting worried. Yes, plenty of very supervised gardening and a few tea trips to Mum and Dad. Finding it all more difficult now then I was at the start. I think it’s the uncertainty of how things will ever get back to ‘normal’. We had a very lazy bank holiday – just...
by so sad
Tue Apr 21, 2020 8:35 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Nowhere to turn
Replies: 4
Views: 831

Re: Nowhere to turn

Hi I've had a lot of therapy over the years but it was only when I learnt (through the therapy) to work out what my feelings and emotions were, that I could start to work on them. Most people, entering therapy, have no idea what it is they are feeling and it takes a lot of work to be able to identif...
by so sad
Mon Apr 20, 2020 9:13 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Nowhere to turn
Replies: 4
Views: 831

Re: Nowhere to turn

Hi Have you ever spoken to your GP about it? I really do think you would benefit from counselling/therapy for everything you've been through - which is a lot. Your GP would be the starting point for support. I'm so sorry you've been through such a lot. I'm not surprised you are feeling the way you a...

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