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by so sad
Wed Jul 15, 2020 4:56 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Trig - had enough of being a no-one
Replies: 0
Views: 4

Trig - had enough of being a no-one

Hi my self-esteem has always been crap and I'm now at rock-bottom. My job disappeared when COVID hit - I'm extremely lucky that I still have a job and work from home but I have no role anymore so I add no value. My mental health is awful and my manager is doing her best to protect me from being put ...
by so sad
Wed Jul 15, 2020 8:38 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Emotional resilience and the impact of its lack
Replies: 472
Views: 245651

Re: Emotional resilience and the impact of its lack

Hi Glad the counselling went OK and its amazing how you've started to notice the impact of the self-bullying narrative. Improvement indeed. I wish I could get to that stage - I'm a nasty self-bully and I know I'm doing it and I know its the worse thing I can do for myself but I still do it. Its good...
by so sad
Mon Jun 29, 2020 4:11 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 97
Views: 34577

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi I am sorry things went they the way they did and after such a lovely day last week – makes it feel worse doesn’t it? I have a couple of friends who still say things like ‘close your ears’ or even apologise when they’ve sworn or said something rude and I think its because I don’t tend to do either...
by so sad
Mon Jun 29, 2020 9:25 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: car and insurance
Replies: 2
Views: 222

Re: car and insurance

Hi

You definitely need to get car insurance so please do. Its against the law and can affect others badly if you end up in an accident.

M
by so sad
Fri Jun 26, 2020 8:22 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: I’m done
Replies: 13
Views: 483

Re: I’m done

Hi

How are you? Hope you didn't succeed

xx
by so sad
Wed Jun 24, 2020 10:29 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 97
Views: 34577

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi I am so, so pleased that you had such an amazing day. Couldn’t have wished for a better result. It definitely sounds like you’re getting some balance back and he is clearly really into you which makes me happy for you. What are your next plans with him? Do you think you’d venture to the cinema or...
by so sad
Mon Jun 22, 2020 12:00 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 97
Views: 34577

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi How are things? Are you feeling a bit less flat? Did work help? I totally get that some people drop into the annoying category very quickly when trying to be affectionate. Some are just a bit too full on, especially when we’re not used to it. Has he been expressing how he has been struggling with...
by so sad
Mon Jun 15, 2020 3:37 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 97
Views: 34577

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi I’m sorry to hear about your fella but I think it’s the best thing for you and your health. Like you said last time, he has always been more into you than the other way round and where I know most relationships have a slight imbalance, I think yours was a bit more pronounced. The weight thing is ...
by so sad
Tue Jun 09, 2020 12:52 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 97
Views: 34577

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi I’m so sorry that you had a few bad days. I can honestly say that I have never been as affected by the news as I have recently. I’ve stopped watching it. So I do understand how badly it affects us. I have no clue where we’re at with the virus – like you said, they just contradict themselves all t...
by so sad
Fri Jun 05, 2020 11:42 am
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.
Replies: 97
Views: 34577

Re: Not wanting to live.... but not wanting to die.

Hi, How are you? How is work? It all sounds very positive, I’m really pleased for you. I’m still struggling and I can’t see what could change that would change that. I have an appointment (telephone) next week with the orthopaedic team about my shoulder. I’m hoping they’ll have the xray from last we...

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