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by sallyc
Mon Feb 12, 2018 11:04 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I get what you're saying James. My ex wanted things to happen so quick. He wanted us to move in, get married and he couldn't wait. The realisation that we couldn't do this for a couple of years because of the disruption to our kids education made the decision for him. I kept on trying to tell him th...
by sallyc
Mon Feb 12, 2018 10:13 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Diolch James! :D Small world. Yes it does all seem so similar doesn't it. The love we all felt was and is real and so intense. I still can't believe that he doesn't still feel that. There's no way someone can lose those kind of feelings so quick. I fear it will all come crashing down on them in the ...
by sallyc
Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:39 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Yes Arwen I think you're spot on there. The changing overnight is shocking and I still don't get it and don't think I ever will. He was the one saying all these things about marriage, being soulmates, telling our kids they were going to be step-brothers and sisters and that he'd never loved anyone a...
by sallyc
Mon Feb 12, 2018 7:48 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi guys hope you're all doing ok? I'm sorry to hear about your weekend Arwen. I'm mostly feeling the same as you are Helpless, numb, desperate. I just wish this feeling would go away and I could start to feel a bit better. The only saving grace I have is the distance we live from each other, so I do...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 09, 2018 8:23 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi guys, hope you're ok? Or as well as you can be. Lillie, you've done so much for him, I really hope that he comes out of this and appreciates all you've done. Hope you're happy with your nails and enjoyed a bit of pampering? xx Arwen, it sounds like he's trying to make himself feel better through ...
by sallyc
Thu Feb 08, 2018 7:25 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

You're very welcome Arwen. I feel your pain with the shattered dreams. We had our future's planned out. Marriage, growing old together. Now that's gone. It is so sad. Yes Lillie I agree. How can someone switch off their emotions? I'll never understand that. Looking back at my relationship, I have no...
by sallyc
Wed Feb 07, 2018 11:10 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Oh Arwen I'm so sorry to hear. Everything you said about the way your relationship was is the same as mine. He pursued me, told me all the things you just said. When I saw him last week I asked him if it was all a lie and he said it wasn't, it's what he felt at the time. Yeah 2 weeks before!! I'm tr...
by sallyc
Wed Feb 07, 2018 9:35 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thanks Ariane. I can't see his whole profile thankfully because when he blocked me that automatically unfriended me. I'm just confused as to why he's done it. Why not just leave me blocked? I won't be contacting him to ask though. It'll be a week tomorrow since our last text. It just feels like I'm ...
by sallyc
Wed Feb 07, 2018 6:24 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi guys. Sorry to hear you're having such a hard time. It seems that closing their emotions off is a common thing with them. I don't understand how someone can do that but, then again, I don't truly understand depression either. It's probably a coping strategy? But don't they have to deal with every...
by sallyc
Mon Feb 05, 2018 9:24 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148492

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thanks Arwen. I'm glad you had a nice time in Paris. I feel the numbness at the moment. I'm exactly like you. I don't easily let any man into my life. Friends/family are well meaning saying these things to us, bless them, but I don't think they understand how we feel at the moment. I definitely won'...

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