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by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 12:05 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
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Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

James. Please don't beat yourself up about it, you've done nothing wrong but care. To think what you've been through I wouldve thought she'd have had a bit more compassion towards you. We're here x Thanks Arwen xx It does sound very strange. This flatmate probably isn't helping matters. No contact i...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:18 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Ariane. Glad things are going well for you. It's nice to see something positive on here. x Hi Stuart. Welcome. I'm sad to hear of someone else going through this. It's so hard when they won't get the help they desperately need isn't it. You're amazing to have stuck by her for 3 years. I hope that yo...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 9:47 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Morning guys. Thanks for the birthday wishes Lillie and Ariane x So glad things are going well for you Lillie. I share the same thoughts as James by saying I'll be glad to see at least one happy ending here. I have everything crossed for you x James, hope you're feeling a bit better today? Keep stro...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 12:28 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

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Yes, I've come to realise that I was holding on to hope because he was depressed. Making excuses to myself. Of course they might be depressed and I sincerely hope they get help as they're not only ruining their own lives but ours and any future partners as well. Not to mention the children involved....
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 12:03 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

So sorry James. You had every right to snap though I think. I will never understand how they can change their feelings so quickly. Maybe it's the depression or maybe it's all an excuse to not face up to how shit they've treated us?? I suppose we'll never know. I hate what this is doing to us all on ...
by sallyc
Thu Feb 15, 2018 10:23 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

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Hi Arwen. Very strange. I don't know enough about depression to make any sense of why he sent that to you. Do you feel you can ask him why he sent it? With your night out, I get you. I went out on Tuesday with my best friends to have some food and watch 50 shades. A bit of fun but I didn't really en...
by sallyc
Thu Feb 15, 2018 11:48 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

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Oh Liveahappylife I'm so sorry to hear about your week. Oh god I would feel exactly the same as you if I got flowers that way. Of course you would think they'd be from your ex, so would I. Friends are great and the thought was lovely but I would also be disappointed and wish they were from my ex as ...
by sallyc
Wed Feb 14, 2018 6:00 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
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Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Arwen. Hope you enjoy your evening it sounds fun. Go let your hair down. James. I'm glad you're feeling a bit better today. You have some exiting times ahead with your precious daughter. You have to do what you feel is best for yourself. So if it's not giving up for now, then I really wish you well....
by sallyc
Wed Feb 14, 2018 12:16 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Oh James, I'm so sorry to hear your news. It's the finality of it that's so heartbreaking isn't it. I don't have any advice as I'm still in despair after the face to face meeting I had with my ex when he basically told me there was no chance of getting back together. I just wish they could see how h...
by sallyc
Mon Feb 12, 2018 11:48 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148480

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Yeah. My ex wouldn't admit that he had depression just that he felt low this time of year. But when we met up for the last time he did say that he has been suffering for years. He wouldn't entertain the idea of medication as his ex was on prozac and it messed with her head. He thought that he just h...

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