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by sallyc
Sun Feb 18, 2018 8:21 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Arwen. I'm glad to hear you're keeping busy. I need to start doing that instead of staying in moping, obsessively checking facebook and constantly googling the same situation that I'm going through in case there's a miracle answer! Liveahappylife. I do feel like I've taken a bit of control back in t...
by sallyc
Sun Feb 18, 2018 7:31 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I've just gone one further and sent him a text asking him not to contact me again. I wasn't nasty I just told him the truth that it had set me back even though I was grateful for the message and knew he hasn't sent it from a bad place. That it was too painful for me, I'll always love him and that I ...
by sallyc
Sun Feb 18, 2018 6:29 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Liveahappylife. I deleted him and re-added him on WhatsApp a few times but the last straw was my birthday and it took all my strength to delete him but at least I'm not checking up on him on it all the time now. I'm not friends with him on Facebook but I can see his profile and cover photos and keep...
by sallyc
Sun Feb 18, 2018 4:20 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I would be the same as you if I saw pictures of him with someone else. Absolutely devastated. Yes the next one will go through the same as you because he hasn't dealt with his issues. How can they bloody do this to people and carry on I'll never know. I've just answered with a simple Thank you x. Th...
by sallyc
Sun Feb 18, 2018 2:06 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Oh Liveahappylife I'm so very sorry to hear that you're so down. I wish I could reach out and give you a big hug. I think most of us could do with one. He's probably in a rebound relationship, which won't last I guarantee it. They rarely do. It doesnt help the pain you're going through though. I pro...
by sallyc
Sat Feb 17, 2018 2:35 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Arwen. Some really good advice there from your friend. It's good to hear from the depressed person's perspective. It's funny how they made us change in our relationships isn't it. My friends would always say I was the strong one in our group that would take no shit from anyone but there I was tak...
by sallyc
Sat Feb 17, 2018 1:16 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Morning guys. It's my first day of trying to move on properly and I'm determined to not let him ruin any more of my life. I'm giving myself a kick up the backside if I slip back to the negativity! Thanks Ariane. Yeah I know what you mean with it being for the best that he didn't. I would've looked i...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 10:27 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Oh my god that's awful Stuart. How can they do that? The kids are going to suffer from this as well. This illness is so cruel, it affects everyone around the person doesn't it. I have no advice unfortunately, sorry. Keep coming on here though, it does help. Well I've had a crap birthday, been crying...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 1:27 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Maybe Arwen. Only they know that, well if they even realise what they're doing?! I have read that this could be the case in our minds of situations. I've also read that it could be a sign of their low self-esteem and they do it as a form of control. God I'm doing a load of reading at the moment. Whe...
by sallyc
Fri Feb 16, 2018 12:52 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148482

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I know Arwen. Our relationships sound so similar. The way he looked at me, the things he said. Involving me in everything to do with his kids and family. We even had a big family dinner on new years day after toasting to a brilliant future on NYE! Everyone was there and we had fun and played games e...

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