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by sallyc
Fri Jan 19, 2018 6:51 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thinking of you James, today must be so hard for you. I can't begin to imagine the pain you've suffered and still suffering. Sarah that text must be really hard to read. We don't know what's going on in their heads and that makes it harder to let go. I gave mine the option to block me, he hasn't yet...
by sallyc
Thu Jan 18, 2018 11:43 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

I'm pleased he replied but trying not to think too much into it. He'll be hungover tomorrow and he usually gets quite down then as well as we know alcohol is a depressant. I replied with I'm glad he was out as it'd do him good and hope he enjoys himself. I've left it at that now and hope he replies ...
by sallyc
Thu Jan 18, 2018 9:51 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thanks guys, I really appreciate you answering me. I sent a message saying firstly I was sorry for sending it but couldn't get him out of my head. I said that I hoped he was ok and he was coping ok with everything. Said I hoped the kids and his parents were ok. Apologised again for sending the messa...
by sallyc
Thu Jan 18, 2018 7:16 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Thank you James. Everything you say makes sense. At the moment I'm not seeing sense and thinking if he does block me then I'd have no choice but to try and move on. I can't imagine going through this unknowing hell for days, weeks or months even. I don't feel strong enough to cope with the not knowi...
by sallyc
Thu Jan 18, 2018 5:18 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi guys? Thank you for your replies. I'm sorry that you're all going through this. James, I'm so glad to hear that she responded to you and Lillie and Ariane it's good to hear that there's communication between you. I'm having a bad day today, I'm contemplating sending him a message to ask how he is...
by sallyc
Thu Jan 18, 2018 12:17 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi Ariane and Lillie, Thank you for your replies and sorry that you're also going through the same. I really don't know with him. I'm so confused and scared to reach out to him. Like I said, I did it in November and we worked things out. This time even though he said the same things whilst breaking ...
by sallyc
Wed Jan 17, 2018 10:46 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 148485

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

Hi guys. This is my first post on this site but after reading your posts I had to. I apologise in advance because it's long! I'd been seeing my boyfriend (or "soulmate" as he called me) for 18 months. We're both in our early 40's. We live 40 miles apart and each have 3 children. We'd talke...

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