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by tomg
Tue Nov 12, 2019 4:57 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Hi all. Need some advice. 18M
Replies: 3
Views: 3063

Re: Hi all. Need some advice. 18M

Don't worry, you're not being silly. I'm 22 and I've never been in a serious relationship. I felt like you recently, until a girl came my way and we started chatting. Things work out in time. Some people get into relationships early, other people do it quite late. It will happen when the timings rig...
by tomg
Mon Nov 04, 2019 5:41 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away
Replies: 934
Views: 142341

Re: Depressed boyfriend has pushed me away

That is helpful to hear. Having recently had a girl push me away as a result of her anorexia, I get it. Her friends told me that she felt like I don't deserve everything she was putting me through, and she didn't want me to feel like I had to carry her burdens. You're right too - if it's meant to be...
by tomg
Sat Nov 02, 2019 1:44 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Struggling
Replies: 5
Views: 2257

Re: Struggling

You've got to remember this isn't her talking, but her mental health. She wants to be with you, but as long as she has these problems she can't. You need to step back to help her get better. Honestly, once she's better she will realise how supportive you've been. It's going to be so hard, but you ar...
by tomg
Wed Oct 30, 2019 3:39 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Struggling
Replies: 5
Views: 2257

Re: Struggling

First things first...you're not alone. I'm going through something similar (I'll explain) and I used to think I was alone. But actually, there's plenty of guys who have gone through this and made it through the other side. In terms of my situation, I was seeing a girl who was suffering with anorexia...
by tomg
Wed Oct 30, 2019 3:28 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: GF (with PTSD, anxiety and depression) Wants to Breakup
Replies: 4
Views: 5409

Re: GF (with PTSD, anxiety and depression) Wants to Breakup

Hi mate, I completely understand your situation as I'm currently going through something slightly similar. Let me explain... I've been seeing a girl since 4 months, and if I'm honest, I've absolutely fallen for her (I've not felt this way about a girl before). A couple of months into dating, she tol...

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