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by hyster
Tue Sep 17, 2019 6:01 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: messed up
Replies: 17
Views: 282

Re: messed up

me wanting to learn to program is not a decent reason lol, i have tried many times over the last few years but stopped after a few tutorials. i learnt web coding as i took over the running of a website and i wanted to do stuff on it that there wasn't any code so i had to work out how to do it. an ex...
by hyster
Mon Sep 16, 2019 11:19 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: messed up
Replies: 17
Views: 282

Re: messed up

if u get 10 -20 mins do this test. https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test im a INTP, i wouldnt be surprised if u was as well. https://www.16personalities.com/intp-personality all my life i been told im lazy, dt finish what i start ............ like u ive had so many jobs its unreal, 1...
by hyster
Mon Sep 16, 2019 9:25 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: Not sure what is going on in my life
Replies: 5
Views: 61

Re: Not sure what is going on in my life

ur welcome.

ur bf response “I’m nothing like him he was evil” sort of says to me he hasent made the connection from what ur ex was like to how u are now, he see's himself as a decent guy and probs cant comprehend how it made u feel (just a guess though).

let us know how u get on !!
by hyster
Mon Sep 16, 2019 8:58 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: Not sure what is going on in my life
Replies: 5
Views: 61

Re: Not sure what is going on in my life

hey jane. have u told ur bf about ur ex ?? if not id advise u to do so as he can then start to understand why u are the way u are. if he dt understand what u are trying to say and u have problems explaining it then write it wont but not like an essay but more bullet / short points. .my ex made me fe...
by hyster
Mon Sep 16, 2019 2:29 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: messed up
Replies: 17
Views: 282

Re: messed up

yh i can see ur reply fine. part of the reason i do pick apart what people say is as i know if i go by feeling im likely going to mis-read what they mean. i had got to the point when people said something to me i assumed that it was a dig at me in some way. i also can easily pick up on peoples tone ...
by hyster
Sun Sep 15, 2019 11:30 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: People say it is OK to ask for help, but what if you have nobody to ask?
Replies: 5
Views: 165

Re: People say it is OK to ask for help, but what if you have nobody to ask?

its great that u have started to deal with it. is ur line manager supportive ?? most of the ones ive had never gave a crap about there workers :/
have u no close friends or family ??
by hyster
Sun Sep 15, 2019 10:44 pm
Forum: Mutual Support Group
Topic: HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP
Replies: 1
Views: 106

Re: HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP

stop stressing about it, the more u stress the more anxious ull get, the more anxious the more scared.
just relax (have a few drinks maybe), have a bath/shower together and let ur bf do the work, if he is a decent bf then tell him how u feel and he should help u work through it.
by hyster
Sun Sep 15, 2019 10:16 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: messed up
Replies: 17
Views: 282

Re: messed up

np, glad im able to help. hope u sleep well, since i been on sertraline my sleep improved a lot along with my depression.
by hyster
Sun Sep 15, 2019 3:45 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: messed up
Replies: 17
Views: 282

Re: messed up

if ur friends bf is inattentive then ur bf and friend could just be reaching out to each other in a needy / friendly way. few years back my brother had a gf that i got on very well with, after they split i stayed friends with her as i fancied her best friend and she was 1 of the few people i "c...
by hyster
Sun Sep 15, 2019 12:40 pm
Forum: Newbies Room
Topic: messed up
Replies: 17
Views: 282

Re: messed up

with out knowing any off u its near impossible to give an accurate idea. ur friend saying yh yh could just be her in a bad mood or distracted and not really listening or even u being hyper sensitive. dt forget if u are paranoid then the slightest thing is going to set u off worse, ull question every...

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