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by worriedhusband
Tue Nov 20, 2018 11:44 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

So I've just joined tinder, literally just to make myself feel better and maybe chat to some other women. Few swipes in and my wife pops up. Absolutely crushed!! I texted her a couple of angry texts. This is my worst nightmare!!
by worriedhusband
Mon Nov 19, 2018 5:33 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

It is so hard to imagine how my life can ever be good again. I keep thinking that I need to find someone to make me happy again. But that would just be using someone to get over the hurt of her. That is not healthy for me or right for whatever woman comes along. I will just end up needy and getting ...
by worriedhusband
Mon Nov 19, 2018 10:16 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

I woke up at 5 this morning. I felt normal for a second, not upset or devastated. Then I realised where I was and reality hit me like a train. It all came flooding back and my heart broke again.
by worriedhusband
Sun Nov 18, 2018 9:03 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

I can't stop crying. Like proper balling. I am a complete mess. I have no idea what to do with myself or what my future will be like. I am currently lying in a single bed in my dad's house, there is not enough room for my clothes never mind anything else, there is no telly or anything I have in my h...
by worriedhusband
Sun Nov 18, 2018 12:32 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

She left me.
She did it tonight.
I just looked at that link. I definitely have dependant personality disorder.
But whatever. She left me. I'm moving in with my dad tomorrow.
Done
by worriedhusband
Sat Nov 17, 2018 9:51 am
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

To be honest that still sounds pretty lonely. I'm not really a sporty person at all. I need real connection. Need to spend time with my real friends. When I was running I pictured myself running towards her, and her saying if you want this relationship then you have to run towards it. Made me feel l...
by worriedhusband
Fri Nov 16, 2018 3:51 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

I saw the doctor this morning. He was less personable than the one I spoke to on Monday. But more like a tough love kind of approach. He asked about diet and exercise. I told him I have nearly stopped exercising and can barely eat now. I know that being physically active and healthy is good for ment...
by worriedhusband
Thu Nov 15, 2018 7:30 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

With couples therapy it says it requires 6-12 sessions. She says she will only go once and only if I am seeing someone for myself too. My boy is 5, will be 6 at Xmas time. I am dreading Xmas, it is usually such a happy time. I have never enjoyed or been happy at Xmas time before her. I am not really...
by worriedhusband
Wed Nov 14, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

If she died I would be devastated, lonely and would miss her unbearably. But without sounding horrible, I think it would be easier to take than this. It would be quicker and I wouldn't feel betrayed or abandoned or unloved. See it as a long game. That's good advice. I will stick in and try and have ...
by worriedhusband
Tue Nov 13, 2018 9:56 pm
Forum: Family, Friends and Carers
Topic: Looking for advice
Replies: 50
Views: 11571

Re: Looking for advice

So I asked her to go to couples counselling and she immediately said no. I explained that it might help us both get closure if it still doesn't work etc. She agreed to go to one session only. But she doesn't see the point in wasting time or money. She doesn't need help I do, and she has said everyth...

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