Ghosting is usually blocking all forms of contact, if you haven't been blocked then maybe he still wants a way of seeing what you are doing? I got blocked on Facebook even tho we'd never been friends on there! I also think its a control thing, if they block you, they then hold the power to unblock, ...

I've read the article and I'm 100% in agreement with it! It's an eye opener though that it's almost become thus social phenomenon - in a negative meaning of course. I think that the important thing is that it isn't a reflection of who we are as a person, but a reflection of our exes problems (or ma...

Lillie thanks for the link. Very interesting reading and totally validates the way I am feeling.

Ariane I have sent an e-mail

Hope we are all having a better day xx

Lillie yes please I would appreciate the link to the article. Ariane I don't think there is a private message facility on here but I am more than happy to post my phone number ( its a Spanish number) and i can delete it once all who are interested have whatsapped me... what do you all think?

Thankyou Lillie. I feel so numb this morning. I can't face anything today. The last glimmer of hope has gone. In reality I suppose that's a good thing but it certainly doesn't feel like it at the moment.

We all have a lot of healing to do. Love and strength to you all xx

I feel emotionally drained, hurt beyond words and betrayed. I feel like a crazy woman from having had to resort to contacting his friends. And I feel like I acted like a stalker. Although I know that his actions prompted this. I gave him over the last 10 days ample opportunities to tell me what he ...

I'm with you on feeling angry, and humiliated, I've been making excuses for him thinking he was really having a bad time, but in reality he had moved on and thought it was acceptable to just block me with no explanation, saying 'she should have got the message by now'. Arsehole! His friend and famil...

Well I finally have an answer but he didn't have the balls to tell me, or even to tell the truth. I sent a group message to his friend, his son and daughter in law saying i was here and somebody, preferably him, should tell me what was going on. I got a reply saying he had made his mind up now, and ...

Well I'm in the uk ... messaged from my mum's phone yesterday saying i was here and it would be lovely to meet up, message was read then number blocked. I am still making excuses for him, he would have been at work, he needs time to think ..... I said I was here until tomorrow ..... now its just cru...

Cc my life isn't really any different to how it was before I met him - we only spent 5 days together altho we had talked online for weeks beforehand. I have plenty going on in my life and that hadn't changed when I met him, so life goes on as it did before, just without the promise of a better futur...